Falling In Love And Falling Out
Are you an enemy of your ex? Does your ex sister, brother and friends hate you? Do you think you did something wrong? Well, the good news is “YOU DID NOTHING”! They hate you because of what your ex told them after the breakup, it is the only way for these known people to accept the breakup and help your ex to move on. Your ex is not going to tell all the truth behind the breakup. Sorry dude, he/she will plant the blame on you, to be considered as the bad person.
So, it was somewhere during the April 2011, when he decided not to go out anymore to find a girl friend. Well, his last relationship ended on rocks and the feelings of moving to another relationship was not so much in question. He decided to concentrate on his hobbies and forget the party going on out there. Somewhere, somehow, there should be someone waiting for him out there.
He received a call and he reached out for the phone. On the phone was his friend asking him, to hang out with him and his people that night. He was not ready to go out, since he had no more energy for any relationship. Even though his last relationship which lasted for almost 8 months was great but ended on rocks.
At the end of the night, it was meant that the girl was ready to go home with him. He knew this was not what he came out for, but he said to himself, alright, i do not loose anything for one night.
They started hanging out together on several occasions and later were termed as “boy/girl lovers”.
They tried, for a month, but then was time to say goodbye.
Breaking up is just another stage of life. There is time for every thing, time to be born and time to die, time to be happy and time to get sad. Life is like a roller coaster. You never get what you want, but you only get what time has for you.
See, there are times when you plant a seed and time when this seed will become a plant and a time will come when this plant will die. Nothing lasts forever. Some last for days, some for weeks, some for months, for years and some for decades.
Now, it is time to go out, have fun, meet new friends, enjoy your one night stands, enjoy taking new telephone numbers, enjoy having dinner with new faces and do the best out of yourself now.
See, we all get hurt one way or the other, but we always try to get the pieces together and move on.
Love is like a flower and a butterfly. A butterfly visits the flower only when the flower is on its reproductive stage, but after this, the flower moves to the next one. See this as a nature of mankind.
For example, Johnny decided to make himself a jar of coffee. First, he took 2 cubes of sugar. In the first instance, Johnny was satisfied with his coffee. So he decided to read his novel, but from no where, he said, “NO” the coffee needs more sugar, so he added another cube. But suddenly he knew that was not enough, so he moved on to add 3 cubes more and added some milk. ” Gosh ” he said, this coffee is too sweet. So he went to the kitchen, poured the coffee out of the jar and decided to make himself another coffee.
Now taking this from Johnny, this is how we are as mankind. We get something and we like it in the first place. We then try to make it better in the second place, then a little more better to get the best out of it, but then suddenly we make it worse!
But before i come to the end, remember, “It’s no good crying over spilt milk”.
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